Recently, there had been many unhappiness in my workplace. And it making me very sensitive to certain issues that concern me directly or indirectly. I would like it to be me who is sensitive so that i can change my mindset, otherwise it would mean this place is getting worse.

Take this simple example that happen these two days.

Yesterday, I was asked by my boss to work on a technical task. Such task is usually done by person X. So when my boss discuss it, both me and X were involved. I was surprise why my boss asked me to do it instead, coz i dont wanna cross path with X. Anyway, it seems like my boss reminded me to do it again yesterday evening.

This morning, i m begining to work on it. So to prevent crossing path with X, i asked X again if she wanna do it or had she done it. She kept mum. And i told her that i am going to ask boss about the technical details before i start on it. She said yeah, its better that way.

I went to see my boss and ask him what are the requirement, and X popped in and told boss that she had done an example and if that is what he wants.

Hmm.. so here i am, looking stupid, asking boss what is his requirement, when a solution had already come. X should tell me that there is an example, or if X had done it, just tell me, i am happy to let X do it.

Pleeaaasseee.. tell me i am over sensitive.?