Losing temper

Today my elder bro and my father had a big fight over a very small issue. A deliveryman was sending a new handphone to my house. But becoz my brother haven't extract all the data out from his old phone and had the deliveryman waited outside my door for more then 20mins. We tried to invite him to come in but he refused. My father wasnt happy with what he saw. He kinda reprimanded my bro and in the end they ended quarrelling.

My mum joined in the "fun" and reprimanded my dad instead. She needed to support my brother for some reasons. LOL, in the end my dad left the house furiously. My brother is the type that just flared his temper to show his prowess. But he mean no harm, and most of the time he be in talking terms with you after that.

Temper has to be buildup. So, once u reach the limit, you got no choice but to it off at someone. I always believe this theory, emotional goes up, intelligent goes down, and vice versa. So once u flare your temper at someone, thats where ur emo comes into play. With little intelligent left, you become another person, and you end up saying nasty things to them. And somehow u trigger the other person emo button and thats where fights happen.

By the time your intelligent return, its already too late. Damages has been done liao.

My anger management arent too good either. But i been trying to improve it over these years through various fights observation.... HAHA..bad me.